“We don’t have the luxury of messing around, trying to figure it all out.” –Michael B.
I had the great fortune of participating in a substance abuse treatment program graduation last night. While I was not a graduate, or even a clinician, I walked away with some great wisdom and hope and immense gratitude for those who are working to change lives in our community.
At the graduation, we heard from a man who last used crack on March 17, 1996. He said that although he had given up all illegal drugs on that day, he still took up to ten pills per day to control his HIV infection. He said that March 17, 1996 was the day that he found God’s purpose for his life. He said that was the day he realized that we must all find that purpose; “we don’t have the luxury of messing around, trying to figure it all out.”
Since that time, he has “been living his dream.” He said his willingness to confront his fears and willingness to stay the course are the engines that drive his success. He said that although his journey was immensely difficult, all of the struggle was necessary and had relevance in terms of his personal development and growth. ”Sometimes, we need the struggle.”
He ended with more wisdom: “Go forward with the expectation that your life will get better.”
It was incredible watching the community of graduates from this substance abuse treatment program receive his message. It was obvious that they had formed a community of support, which gave each of them encouragement and strength to take the next step. Community is so important. We all seek it and need a group of people with whom we can “do life.”
They held hands as they said the serenity prayer:
God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And wisdom to know the difference.
Dear God, Help me through the struggle and help me live a life full of expectation that You will provide. Give me courage to change the things I can.
